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Insight rizq 2

Blending Islamic thought with self-awareness:

1. Rizq is more than money

In Islam, "rizq" (sustenance) is not just about how much money you make:

.It includes health, peace of mind, shelter, friendship, knowledge, and even the ability to worship ("ibadah').

.When you feed your cat from your income, that too is a part of your "rizq"—and a "barakah"-filled act if done with sincerity.

“And there is no creature on earth but that upon Allah is its provision…” (Qur'an 11:6)

Low income does not always mean blocked "rizq".

.A small income like RM50 per day can feel limiting, but it doesn't necessarily mean your "rizq" is blocked.

.It may be a phase, a test ("ibtila"), or even a way that Allah is purifying or preparing you for something greater.

Am I focusing too much on money?

.This is a powerful reflection. If money becomes the only lens, then we may overlook hidden blessings.

.But worrying about survival isn’t wrong—it’s natural. What matters is your intention ("niyyah"): are you trying your best while relying on Allah?

4. Could a shadow entity be taking my "rizq"?

In Islam, "jinn" or unseen beings exist, and envy ("hasad") or black magic can affect a person—but these are rare and only happen by Allah’s permission.

.The stronger explanation is psychological and spiritual: it may be "self-sabotage", fear of growth, unresolved trauma, or even low self-worth that limits your openness to new opportunities.

Are you blocking your own "rizq"?

Yes, that’s possible in these forms:

Negative beliefs (e.g., “I don't deserve more”)

Guilt from the past (as you've shared before)

Fear of success or change

Lack of action due to overthinking or perfectionism

6. Dhikr and stored "rizq"

Correct point, some "rizq" is immediate (in this world), and some is stored for the "akhirah". Your "dhikr" nourishes your soul and builds "barakah" in invisible ways.

But that doesn’t mean you won’t receive anything now—it can manifest as:

.An unexpected discount

.Someone helping you

.A sudden idea or skill

.A new way of seeing things (mental clarity = "rizq")

7. What to do now?

Here’s a balanced approach:

Spiritual: Continue "dhikr", "dua", and daily tawakkul. Ask, “Ya Allah, show me the doors of "rizq" that I do not see.”

Practical: Review skills, habits, or blocks. Are you avoiding something because of fear or low confidence?

Reflective: Journal on this question: “What am I afraid will happen if I suddenly receive a lot more money?”

Final Thought:

You are not being punished. You are being shown. Maybe your "rizq" isn’t missing—it’s just appearing in forms you haven’t recognized yet.

Would you like to explore if there’s a practical step you're unconsciously avoiding that might open a door to more income? I can help you dig gently.

Great. Let’s explore this step-by-step, like uncovering a hidden door. I’ll guide you with gentle but honest prompts to help reveal if there’s a practical step you might be avoiding that could unlock more *rizq*.

Part 1: Your Current Relationship with Money

Let’s reflect on your inner story.

1. When you think about making more money, what’s the "first" emotion or thought that comes up?

Examples: fear, excitement, “not good enough,” too hard, guilt, “I’ll lose my peace,” etc.

My answer. Fear of unknown, and I'll will lose my peace. I am not lucky enough. 

2. Have you ever turned down or avoided an opportunity (job, project, selling something, asking for payment) because of fear, shame, or self-doubt?

If yes, describe one example briefly.

Answer: i feel shame to ask for money and order. I feel I'm not good enough to ask for it. I am inclined to give it free most of the time, turn out I got bullied by client.

Part 2: Beliefs That Might Be Blocking You

Your belief system shapes your action.

3. Do you believe that if you earn more, something else will go wrong?

(Like your peace, worship, or relationships will suffer?)

Yes, i i earn more, i might tell everybody and i will lose my peace.

4. Do you secretly believe that you’re not meant to have more money than you currently do?

Sometimes this is rooted in childhood experiences or how others treated our success.

My answer : Yes i am. People don't like my success. I think they prefer someone else to be successful. This happened because in a family, there will be favourite child and the other child is meant to support other physically and emotionally. 

Part 3: Hidden Skills or Untapped "Rizq"

Now let’s explore the practical side.

5. What is one skill, idea, or small business you’ve thought about starting—but haven’t yet?

It could be selling, writing, translating, teaching, repairing, designing, etc.

I want to sell home produce food.

6. What’s stopping you from doing it now—even just the first step?

Be honest. Is it energy? Fear? Not knowing where to start?

Capital in term of money and confidence. 

You can answer these one by one. Don’t worry about sounding “correct.” I’ll help you make sense of it after. Sometimes just "naming" the block already unlocks part of the door.

Ready when you are.

2. Great. Let’s explore this step-by-step, like uncovering a hidden door. I’ll guide you with gentle but honest prompts to help reveal if there’s a practical step you might be avoiding that could unlock more rizq.

Part 1: Your Current Relationship with Money

Let’s reflect on your inner story.

1. When you think about making more money, what’s the first emotion or thought that comes up?

Examples: fear, excitement, “not good enough,” too hard, guilt, “I’ll lose my peace,” etc.

2. Have you ever turned down or avoided an opportunity (job, project, selling something, asking for payment) because of fear, shame, or self-doubt?

If yes, describe one example briefly.

Part 2: Beliefs That Might Be Blocking You

Your belief system shapes your action.

3. Do you believe that if you earn more, something else will go wrong?

(Like your peace, worship, or relationships will suffer?)

4. Do you secretly believe that you’re not meant to have more money than you currently do?

Sometimes this is rooted in childhood experiences or how others treated our success.

Part 3: Hidden Skills or Untapped Rizq

Now let’s explore the practical side.

5. What is one skill, idea, or small business you’ve thought about starting—but haven’t yet?

It could be selling, writing, translating, teaching, repairing, designing, etc.

6. What’s stopping you from doing it now—even just the first step?

Be honest. Is it energy? Fear? Not knowing where to start?

You can answer these one by one. Don’t worry about sounding “correct.” I’ll help you make sense of it after. Sometimes just naming the block already unlocks part of the door.

Ready when you are.

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Rizq Beyond Numbers: When Provision Comes as Protection

Many of us are taught to believe that when we ask Allah for "rizq" (provision), it will appear in the form of increased income, new opportunities, or material ease. We may follow pious advice to perform dhikr, make duʿa, or seek forgiveness in hopes that our sustenance will expand. And when the results don’t show up as expected—when there’s no visible change in wealth—we begin to wonder:

Did anything really happen?

But what if we’re measuring it the wrong way?

Recently, I reflected on an incident where I performed the recommended dhikr, sincerely seeking more "rizq". 

The next day, my income didn’t increase—but I narrowly avoided an accident. That moment shifted something deep within me. Could it be that the "rizq" I asked for had indeed arrived—not as money, but as safety?

The Wider Meaning of Rizq

In Islam, "rizq" is not limited to money. It is everything Allah provides:

A breath taken in ease

A delay that saves us

A cancellation that steers us from harm

A moment of peace in a chaotic day

Sometimes, protection "is" the provision. What we didn’t lose, what didn’t happen, what danger quietly passed us by—these are often overlooked as forms of divine care.

When the Unseen Is the Answer

The Divine is everpresent, unbound by time and space. So too is His mercy. Just because we can’t measure a result in worldly terms doesn’t mean the request was denied. Perhaps what we think of as “no result” was actually the greatest result: a calamity diverted, a burden lifted before it fell.

Allah doesn’t work in trades and transactions like human systems do. He works in perfect wisdom. The provision we receive is often tailored to what we "need", not just what we *want*.

Dhikr as Realignment

When we engage in dhikr, we aren’t just asking—we’re aligning. We’re tuning our hearts to the rhythm of tawakkul (trust in Allah), clearing space for understanding that what comes—or doesn’t—holds divine purpose. Dhikr may not make us richer overnight, but it makes us "more receptive" to a richer meaning of life.

What If the Real Rizq Was What Didn’t Happen?

Perhaps our daily provisions are not just in what we gain, but in what we are quietly spared from. Just as we may never see a tree’s deep roots, we may not always perceive the layers of divine care that sustain our lives.

So the next time your duʿa or dhikr doesn’t “increase your wealth,” ask instead:

Did I lose anything today?

Was I harmed?

Did I find ease where difficulty was expected?

You may find that your "rizq" came—just in a form your heart is only now beginning to understand.

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The Seeker’s Confession: Understanding Al-Ghazali

A Journey Through Doubt, Faith, and Self-Discovery

There comes a moment in every seeker’s life when uncertainty takes hold, and the search for truth feels overwhelming. The Seeker’s Confession: Understanding Al-Ghazali is more than just a book—it is an exploration of faith, knowledge, and the deeply personal struggles of a soul searching for meaning.

Inspired by the legendary thinker Imam Al-Ghazali, this work bridges classical Islamic wisdom with contemporary reflections, making it accessible to modern readers who yearn for spiritual clarity. Al-Ghazali, one of the greatest scholars of Islam, was not immune to doubt. Despite his vast expertise in philosophy, theology, and law, he found himself questioning the very foundations of his understanding. His crisis led him to abandon his prestigious academic career and embark on a profound journey of self-discovery.

As a researcher with a deep interest in theology and philosophy, I have spent years exploring these very questions. Like Al-Ghazali, I once believed that intellect alone could bring certainty, only to realize that true understanding comes from a synthesis of knowledge, sincerity, and spiritual clarity. This book presents Al-Ghazali’s struggles in a way that resonates with anyone who has ever questioned their beliefs or sought a deeper understanding of life.

What You’ll Discover in This Book:

The inner conflicts of one of Islam’s greatest scholars and how they relate to our modern struggles.

The balance between reason and faith—why knowledge alone is not enough.

The transformative power of self-reflection and spiritual sincerity.

How Al-Ghazali’s journey can inspire seekers to overcome doubt and find certainty.

Rather than a mere retelling of Al-Ghazali’s life, The Seeker’s Confession invites readers to embark on their own intellectual and spiritual quest. Through his confessions, we gain insight into the challenges of faith, the weight of knowledge, and the necessity of seeking truth beyond mere debate.

Who Is This Book For?

Those experiencing doubt in their faith or seeking deeper understanding.

Readers fascinated by Al-Ghazali and Islamic philosophy.

Thinkers who struggle with balancing intellect and spirituality.

Anyone searching for meaning beyond material success.

Whether you are a student of philosophy, a spiritual seeker, or simply someone who has ever questioned life’s greater purpose, The Seeker’s Confession: Understanding Al-Ghazali will guide you through one of the most profound intellectual and spiritual journeys in history.

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Publication date ‏ : ‎ March 14, 2025

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Front 

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The bubble of existence 

Imagine life as a bubble—one that is uniquely yours, yet constantly intersecting with others. It expands and contracts, sometimes translucent and light, sometimes thick and heavy. It moves according to forces both seen and unseen, shaped by the choices you make and the path that was set before you.  

But this bubble did not form on its own. It was placed here by the One who creates, the One who determines, the One who tests. You are not here by accident. You are not floating aimlessly. Your existence has purpose, and within this bubble, you are meant to uncover it.  

 The forces within and without  

Inside the bubble is your mind, your will, your soul—the force that drives you forward. It carries your thoughts, beliefs, habits, and emotions. This is the part of you that decides, that interprets, that reacts.  

Outside the bubble is the world—the circumstances, the challenges, the people you meet, the moments that shape you. These external forces push and pull, sometimes gently guiding, sometimes violently shifting your course.  

But the most remarkable thing is that the inside and outside are not separate. They blend perfectly, influencing one another in ways you cannot always see. The path ahead is predetermined, yet flexible. Every choice you make changes its shape, sending ripples that alter the course ahead.  

 Intersection and Destiny

At different moments, your bubble will intersect with others. Some intersections are brief—a stranger you pass by, a single conversation that lingers for years. Others are profound—relationships that change you, hardships that break and rebuild you, moments of clarity that redefine everything.  

At each intersection, there is a choice. Choose one path, and your route unfolds in a certain way. Choose another, and a different path emerges. The destination remains fixed, but how you get there is written in response to what you decide today.  

Nothing is random. The tests, the struggles, the victories—they all form part of the greater design. You were placed here to experience them, to grow through them, to reach understanding through them.  

 The power of habit  

What prepares you for these intersections? Habit.  

The mind clings to what is familiar. If you shape yourself with discipline, patience, and practice, then when the moment of decision comes, you are ready. If you have walked the same road of effort a thousand times, then when the opportunity appears, you do not hesitate.  

This is why mastery takes repetition. 1000 hours. That is what it takes to become great at anything—to condition yourself so thoroughly that when the moment comes, you do not falter.  

And so, your habits are the patterns that shape your bubble. They dictate not only how you react to life but also what paths you are prepared to take when they appear before you. Those who build strong habits of thought and action are always ready for the intersection, always prepared for the unseen turn.  

 The unseen hand  

Yet, behind all of this—the choices, the habits, the intersections—there is always the One who set the test in motion. You were placed here for a reason. You were given abilities, challenges, and circumstances that were never random. The bubble is not chaos; it is creation.  

And though it may feel fragile at times, though it may feel uncertain and shifting, the truth is: it was never out of control.  

Your role is not to fight against it but to move with it, to learn from it, to shape your will according to the One who placed you here.  

You are in the test. You are in the journey. But the moment you recognize this, you are already halfway to the answer.

Free Will: The power to Choose 

If everything is predetermined, where does free will fit in? If the path is already set, do our choices even matter?  

The answer lies in the nature of the test itself. The One who placed you here gave you the ability to choose—not to alter the destination, but to determine how you will travel toward it. You are given crossroads, decisions, and lessons. And each time you choose, the course shifts, adapting to the pattern you create.  

Free will is not about control over everything—it is about control over yourself. You decide how to respond to the events unfolding before you. You decide whether to move forward or stay stuck. You decide whether to embrace wisdom or repeat old mistakes.  

 The Cycle of Mistakes and Mercy  

But what happens when you choose wrong? When you take the wrong turn, say the wrong words, make the wrong decision?  

This is where divine mercy comes in. The One who created the test also created the way back. You were not meant to be perfect. You were meant to fall, to learn, to seek forgiveness, and to rise again.  

Mistakes are inevitable. But what you do after defines your journey. Do you let guilt consume you, or do you return, reflect, and move forward?  

The cycle of life is simple:  

1. You make choices.  

2. You face consequences.  

3. You learn from them.  

4. You seek forgiveness.  

5. Life resets, and the test continues.  

This cycle repeats, not as punishment, but as a chance to refine your soul. Each mistake is an opportunity to return, to improve, to grow.  

 The Ultimate Choice  

In the end, free will is the greatest responsibility given to you. It is not the power to control fate, but the power to shape your response to it. The One who placed you here does not expect flawlessness—He expects sincerity. He gave you free will so that you may choose to return, again and again, until your journey is complete.  

And in that choice—the choice to seek, to correct, to surrender, and to trust—you find true freedom.et, behind all of this—the choices, the habits, the intersections—there is always the One who set the test in motion. You were placed here for a reason. You were given abilities, challenges, and circumstances that were never random. The bubble is not chaos; it is creation.  

The End

ABOUT THE AUTHOR

Nora Abdul is a man shaped by life's unpredictable currents, a seeker who has walked the long road of self-discovery, loss, and acceptance. At 50, he has seen dreams crumble and new ones take shape, felt the weight of abandonment and the warmth of resilience, and learned that the world does not bend to his will—but that he can adapt, grow, and find meaning in all things.  

His journey is not one of perfection but of persistence. From childhood wounds that lingered like shadows to the struggles of forging his own path, he has faced moments of self-doubt, questioning his place in the world. Yet, each setback became a lesson, each hardship an opportunity to reshape his understanding of himself and his purpose.  

He does not claim to have all the answers—only the willingness to ask the right questions. Through writing, he shares his reflections, hoping to reach those who, like him, have felt lost, uncertain, or trapped in patterns they cannot break. He believes that life is not a straight path but an intricate web of choices, intersections, and lessons. The key is not in controlling every outcome but in learning to navigate with awareness, patience, and a deep trust that everything unfolds as it should.  

Nora Abdul is not here to tell you how to live, but to remind you that you are not alone in your struggles. He has walked the path, and if his words can offer even a sliver of guidance or comfort, then every challenge he has faced has been worth it.

Book Summary  

This book is a journey through struggles, self-discovery, and healing. It explores themes of abandonment, self-worth, financial challenges, emotional resilience, and personal transformation. Through personal experiences and deep reflection, it offers insights into overcoming setbacks, embracing change, and finding peace within. Life is a series of choices—each shaping our path. With awareness and perseverance, we can break free from past burdens and move toward a future of clarity and purpose.

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Understanding the weight 

Throughout life, we experience emotions, struggles, and patterns of thought that shape how we see ourselves and the world. Some of these feelings are subtle, while others are overwhelming, taking up more space in our minds than we realize. The percentages attached to each issue in this book are not just numbers—they are a reflection of how heavily these thoughts and emotions weigh on me personally.  

Each person’s experience is unique. What feels like a small burden to one person might feel like an unbearable weight to another. These percentages are not fixed; they shift as we grow, heal, and gain new perspectives. Recognizing these varying weights is essential because it helps us understand ourselves better and, ultimately, navigate our personal journeys with more clarity.  

Why the Percentages Matter  

When we quantify our struggles, we gain insight into which areas need the most attention. For example:  

- Fear of Losing Memories (40%) – This weight reveals that, for me, holding onto physical items is deeply tied to my sense of identity and history. Someone else might assign a lower percentage to this, meaning they can let go of objects more easily.  

- Fear of Rejection (30%) – This signifies that the worry of being unwanted still lingers, but it might not dominate my life as much as it once did. For another person, this could be their heaviest burden, affecting every relationship they form.  

- Self-Sabotage (20%) – This suggests that while I have struggled with holding myself back, I am slowly gaining awareness and control over this tendency.  

By acknowledging these weights, I can focus on where healing is most needed. If one area is significantly heavier than the others, it signals that more effort, reflection, or even external support may be necessary to move forward.  

The Uniqueness of Our Struggles  

No two people carry the same burdens in the same way. Even if two individuals have experienced abandonment, loneliness, or self-doubt, their emotional weight distribution will differ. This is why healing is personal—there is no single solution that fits all.  

For instance, one person might assign a high percentage to "Fear of Facing Inner Thoughts" (35%), while another might give it only 10% because they are more comfortable with self-reflection. One person’s biggest challenge might be "Shifting Sense of Purpose" (40%), while another might barely think about it at all.  

Understanding this variation helps us:  

1. Avoid Comparison – Just because someone else seems to handle something effortlessly does not mean we should feel weak for struggling with it.  

2. Prioritize Healing – By knowing which weights affect us the most, we can direct our energy to where it is most needed.  

3. Recognize Growth – Over time, percentages can change. What once consumed 50% of our mental space might shrink to 10% as we learn to cope.  

 The Path Forward  

Self-awareness is the first step toward inner peace. Acknowledging the weight of our emotions does not mean we are trapped by them—it means we have the power to shift them. The goal is not to make every issue disappear but to balance them in a way that allows us to move forward without feeling overwhelmed.  

If something in this book resonated with you, consider identifying your own percentages. What takes up the most space in your mind? What are the heaviest weights you carry? By doing this, you can start shaping your own path toward healing, one step at a time.  

Ultimately, life is not about eliminating struggles but about learning how to carry them differently. And sometimes, when we finally understand the weight of what we carry, we also realize—we don’t have to carry it alone. 

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Remedies and alternatives, 

This is how I address each struggle:  

 1. I Want to Be Content with What I Have  

- Practice daily gratitude – Write down three things I appreciate each day, no matter how small. This will train my mind to focus on abundance rather than lack.  

- Redefine success – Instead of measuring my worth by achievements, I can start viewing success as inner peace and self-acceptance.  

 2. I Want My Book to Become a Bestseller  

- Shift my focus to impact, not numbers – Instead of worrying about sales, I should focus on writing in a way that truly connects with readers. Quality and authenticity will bring the right audience.  

- Improve marketing efforts – Learning better strategies, networking with other writers, and consistently sharing valuable content could help my book reach more people.  

 3. I Resent My Family for Practicing Favoritism  

- Acknowledge my feelings without letting them control me – It’s okay to feel hurt, but I don’t have to let resentment dictate my present and future.  

- Set boundaries and redefine relationships – If certain interactions bring negativity, I can limit my exposure and focus on building connections with those who truly support me.  

 4. I Want to Work  

- Find small ways to be productive – Even if I don’t have a traditional job yet, I can work on personal projects, freelance, or volunteer to keep my skills active.  

- Explore new income opportunities – Learning new skills, looking into remote jobs, or monetizing my writing can open doors to financial independence.  

 5. I Want to Contribute Food for Stray Cats  

- Start small and be consistent – Even if I can’t contribute a lot, I can set aside a small amount regularly. Little efforts add up over time.  

- Look for community support – Connecting with local animal welfare groups or like-minded individuals might provide resources or partnerships for helping more stray cats.  

 6. I Want to Buy Food for My Cat  

- Plan expenses carefully – Budgeting even small amounts can ensure that my cat’s needs are always covered first.  

- Seek affordable alternatives – Looking for discounts, bulk purchases, or even local pet food donation programs could ease the burden.  

 7. I Had No Money to Buy Gas for My Car  

- Cut unnecessary expenses – Redirecting small savings from non-essential spending can help ensure I have gas when needed.  

- Explore alternative transport options – If possible, I could carpool, use public transport, or plan errands efficiently to minimize fuel use.  

 8. I Wanted a Book and Asked My Daughter to Sponsor Me  

- Create a small personal fund for books – Even setting aside a little money each month can ensure I can afford the books I want without depending on others.  

- Utilize free resources – Libraries, online articles, and free eBooks could provide knowledge without financial strain.  

At this juncture, I am in a state of wanting. But instead of letting these wants define me, I can take small, intentional steps toward improving my situation. The road to contentment is not about having everything—it’s about making peace with what I have while working toward what I need.  

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Letting go—releasing what no longer serves me 

Andy stood in front of a shelf filled with items he hadn’t touched in years. Books, papers, souvenirs, clothes—each one carried a memory, a sense of attachment. Letting go was never easy. Every object felt like a part of his journey, a piece of his story. Yet, deep down, he knew that keeping everything was holding him back.  

 Recognizing the Emotional Weight of Hoarding  

He had always kept things—not just because they were useful, but because they felt like anchors to the past. Every item had a meaning, a story, a moment he didn’t want to forget. But as the years passed, the weight of those objects became overwhelming.  

- Why was it so hard to let go?  

- Was he afraid of forgetting?  

- Did he find comfort in things rather than in the present moment?  

He realized that holding onto too much wasn’t just about physical clutter—it was about emotional attachment.  

 Understanding Why Letting Go Feels Difficult  

1. Fear of Losing Memories (30%) – Every item reminded him of something—an experience, a person, a past version of himself. Throwing it away felt like erasing history.  

2. Desire for Security (25%) – Keeping things gave him a sense of control, a belief that he would always have what he needed.  

3. Guilt and Sentimentality (25%) – Gifts, inherited belongings, or even random items carried emotions. Parting with them felt like disrespecting their meaning.  

4. The Illusion of Future Use (20%) – "Maybe I’ll need this one day" was a common thought, even for things he hadn’t touched in years.  

 Five Ways to Release and Move Forward  

1. Reframing Letting Go as Returning to God – Instead of discarding items, he told them, “I am returning you to God, to be placed where you truly belong. If you are meant to stay, you will come back. If not, may you serve someone else.”  

2. Giving Items a New Purpose – Instead of hoarding, he started donating, knowing that what was no longer useful to him might be a treasure to someone else.  

3. Keeping the Memory, Not the Object – He took photos of sentimental items and wrote down their significance. The memory remained, even if the object didn’t.  

4. Practicing Minimalism in Small Steps – He began by decluttering one small area at a time, making the process less overwhelming.  

5. Focusing on the Present, Not the Past – He reminded himself that his identity was not tied to objects. He was not losing parts of himself—he was making space for new experiences.  

 Embracing Freedom in Letting Go  

Andy took a deep breath and placed a few unused books into a donation box. It wasn’t easy, but it felt right. With every item he released, he felt lighter, as if he was unburdening himself from unnecessary weight.  

For the first time, he understood that letting go wasn’t about loss. It was about trust—trusting that everything finds its place, and so would he.

Overcoming the fear of being alone 

Andy sat in his quiet home, the walls filled with memories, yet the silence felt louder than any sound. He had always thought he enjoyed solitude, but this felt different. It wasn’t peace—it was emptiness. The thought crept in, as it often did: What if I remain alone forever?  

 Recognizing the Root of the Fear  

Loneliness had been a shadow throughout his life, sometimes creeping in softly, other times crashing over him like a wave. It wasn’t just about the absence of people; it was the feeling of being unseen, unheard, and disconnected.  

As a child, he had learned to survive in isolation, not out of choice, but because there was no one to turn to. He had buried himself in books, in thoughts, in work—anything to escape the ache of being alone. Now, as an adult, the fear still clung to him. Even in moments of success, the question lingered: Who is there to share this with?  

 Understanding How It Affects the Present  

This fear shaped his decisions in ways he hadn’t fully realized. He sometimes held onto relationships that no longer served him, afraid of the void they would leave behind. He distracted himself with work, with tasks, with endless projects—anything to avoid sitting alone with his thoughts.  

And yet, despite all efforts, the loneliness remained. Running from it had not freed him.  

 Four Possible Reasons Why the Feeling Persists  

1. Past Emotional Wounds (35%) – Growing up feeling abandoned or emotionally neglected can make the fear of being alone stronger, as it feels like a return to an old pain.  

2. Attachment to External Validation (25%) – Relying on others to feel worthy creates dependence, making solitude feel unbearable.  

3. Fear of Facing Inner Thoughts (25%) – Being alone means confronting emotions that have long been buried, and that can be terrifying.  

4. Societal Expectations (15%) – Society often equates being alone with failure, making it harder to embrace solitude without shame.  

 Five Remedies to Heal and Move Forward  

1. Redefine What It Means to Be Alone – Being alone does not mean being unloved. It is an opportunity to build a deeper relationship with oneself.  

2. Find Comfort in Solitude – Instead of fearing loneliness, he started using his alone time to reflect, create, and grow.  

3. Strengthen Connections that Matter – He focused on quality over quantity, nurturing relationships that brought genuine joy rather than just filling the silence.  

4. Engage in Meaningful Activities – He embraced hobbies, writing, and learning—not as distractions, but as fulfilling experiences that enriched his life.  

5. Turn Loneliness into a Journey of Self-Discovery – Instead of running from solitude, he leaned into it, finding that the more he accepted it, the less it controlled him.  

 Embracing the Truth  

Andy took a deep breath, letting the silence settle around him. It no longer felt suffocating. It was still there, but it had changed. It wasn’t emptiness—it was space. Space to grow, to think, to create, and to be.  

For the first time, he realized he was not truly alone. He had himself, and that was enough.

Where and what you want at this juncture 

At this moment, I find myself caught between desires and limitations—between what I want and what I can do. Some of these wants are immediate, while others are long-term. But at the core of it all, there is a deeper longing that overshadows everything else.  

Here’s where I stand:  

1. I Want to Be Content with What I Have  

   More than anything, I want to reach a state of acceptance—where I no longer feel the weight of what I lack. I want to stop measuring my life by what I don’t have and start appreciating what is already in my hands. But wanting contentment and actually feeling it are two different things. Right now, I am still learning how to bridge that gap.  

2. I Want My Book to Become a Bestseller  

   Writing has given me a sense of purpose. I pour my thoughts, experiences, and struggles into words, hoping that they resonate with others. I don’t just want my book to sell well—I want it to reach the right readers, those who need to hear my story. But deep down, I wonder: do I want success for the sake of success, or do I want validation?  

3. I Resent My Family for Practicing Favoritism  

   This feeling lingers, no matter how much I try to suppress it. I see how favoritism has shaped my relationships, my self-worth, and even the way I view success. It’s not just about what they did—it’s about how it made me see myself. The wound remains, and I have yet to fully let it go.  

4. I Want to Work  

   There is a restlessness inside me, a need to be productive, to contribute, to have a purpose beyond mere survival. I don’t just want to work for money—I want to work to feel useful, to prove to myself that I can still create something meaningful.  

5. I Want to Contribute Food for Stray Cats  

   Even when I struggle, I still feel the urge to give. Perhaps because I know what it feels like to go without, to rely on the kindness of others. These stray cats have no expectations, no demands—just silent gratitude for a simple meal. In a way, feeding them gives me a sense of control over something good.  

6. I Want to Buy Food for My Cat  

   This is one of those basic, everyday needs that remind me of my financial limitations. It’s frustrating when even small responsibilities become a burden, when something as simple as feeding my own pet becomes a challenge.  

7. I Had No Money to Buy Gas for My Car  

   Mobility is freedom, and at this moment, I feel stuck. The inability to move, to go where I need to be, serves as a reminder of my financial situation. I don’t just want gas for my car—I want the independence that comes with it.  

8. I Wanted a Book and Asked My Daughter to Sponsor Me  

   It was just five dollars, but it wasn’t just about the money. It was about needing to ask, about depending on someone else for something I wanted. It was a reminder that I am not where I want to be financially. And yet, I still asked—because knowledge has always been worth it to me.  

At this juncture, I am in a state of wanting. Some of these wants will pass, while others will shape my future. But in the end, the most important thing I seek is contentment—because without it, no amount of achievement, wealth, or recognition will ever feel like enough.  

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My PhD study struggle

Andy sat at his desk, staring at the research notes he had poured years into. The words on the pages blurred as frustration settled deep within him. The dream of completing his PhD had once filled him with purpose, but now, all he felt was exhaustion and disappointment. Twice, in the span of three years, his supervisors had left the university. Twice, he had been left stranded, forced to start over with someone new.

Recognizing the Struggle

Pursuing a PhD was never meant to be easy, but this was something else. It wasn’t just about the difficulty of research or the long nights spent reading and writing—it was the feeling of being abandoned yet again. Each time he adjusted to a new supervisor, built trust, and made progress, another disruption came. It felt personal, even though he knew it wasn’t.

He began to wonder: Was this a sign that he wasn’t meant to finish? Was he just wasting his time?

Understanding Why the Struggle Felt Overwhelming

Four Possible Reasons Why This Thought Exists:  

1. Loss of Guidance (35%) –  A supervisor was more than just an academic mentor; they were the key to navigating the PhD journey. Losing two in such a short time made it difficult to stay on track.

2. Repeated Setbacks (25%) –  Every time he adapted to a new supervisor’s style and expectations, he had to adjust his research focus, delaying his progress.

3. Emotional Burnout (20%) – The uncertainty and constant starting over drained his motivation, making him question if finishing was even worth it.

4. Self-Doubt and Isolation (20%) – Seeing peers move forward while he remained stuck made him feel like a failure, reinforcing the belief that he wasn’t good enough.

Five Remedies to Overcome the Setback

1. Reframing the Experience – Instead of seeing the situation as a failure, he reminded himself that external disruptions were not a reflection of his capability.

2. Seeking Alternative Support – He reached out to other faculty members, researchers, and academic communities to gain guidance beyond just his supervisor.

3. Focusing on What Was Within His Control – While he couldn’t prevent his supervisors from leaving, he could refine his research direction, strengthen his arguments, and stay committed to his work.

4. Allowing Himself to Process the Disappointment – Suppressing frustration wouldn’t help. He acknowledged his feelings, but he refused to let them define his future.

5. Revisiting His Initial Purpose – Why had he started this journey in the first place? Remembering his love for knowledge and the impact he wanted to make reignited his determination.

Finding a New Perspective

Andy took a deep breath, letting go of the resentment he had held onto for so long. The struggles were real, but they did not mean he was incapable or unworthy. He had the choice to continue, to reshape his path, or even to walk away—not as a failure, but as someone who understood that sometimes, a different road led to a greater destination.

He realized that whether or not he finished his PhD, his worth was never tied to a title. He was more than the struggles he faced. He was the knowledge he gained, the wisdom he carried, and the resilience that kept him standing.

When responsibility fades, who am I?

Andy sat in the quiet of his home, a book resting open in his hands, though he hadn’t turned a page in minutes. The house, once filled with the sounds of footsteps, voices, and daily routines, now echoed with silence. His children had grown up and moved out, each pursuing their own lives. For years, his days had revolved around them—providing, guiding, ensuring their well-being. And now, with no one to care for, a strange emptiness settled in.  

 Recognizing the Shift in Identity  

Being a single parent for 26 years had given Andy purpose. The responsibility had been heavy, but it had also been a constant—a reason to wake up every morning, to keep pushing forward. Now, with that responsibility gone, he found himself asking:  

"What do I do now?"  

"Who am I, outside of being a father?"  

The freedom to do as he pleased was there, yet it felt unsettling. He had spent so long focusing on others that he had forgotten how to focus on himself.  

 Understanding Why the Feeling of Emptiness Persists  

1. Loss of Routine (30%) – The daily structure built around his children had vanished, leaving a void in his schedule.  

2. Shifting Sense of Purpose (25%) – His role as a provider had defined him for so long that without it, he struggled to see his value.  

3. Emotional Adjustment (25%) – Even though he had prepared for this stage of life, the reality of it felt different—lonelier than expected.  

4. Fear of Irrelevance (20%) – A lingering worry crept in: Was he still needed? Did he still matter?  

 Five Remedies to Rediscover Meaning  

1. Reconnecting with Personal Passions – He turned back to the things he had once loved—reading, writing, and learning. These were not just hobbies; they were parts of himself that had been neglected.  

2. Finding a New Form of Responsibility – Responsibility didn’t have to end—it could evolve. He welcomed new companions into his life: three cats, each with their own quirks and needs. Caring for them gave him a renewed sense of presence.  

3. Engaging in Meaningful Conversations – He reached out to old friends and like-minded individuals, rekindling connections and discussing ideas beyond parenting.  

4. Allowing Himself to Embrace the Change – Instead of resisting the quiet, he leaned into it, seeing it not as an absence but as an opportunity—to reflect, to grow, to simply be.  

5. Accepting That Life Moves Forward – His children hadn’t abandoned him; they were just on their own journeys, as he had once been. His role had changed, but his importance in their lives had not.  

 Embracing the Next Chapter  

Andy looked around the house, once filled with the responsibilities of fatherhood, now transformed into a space for something new. He wasn’t just a father—he was a man with a mind full of stories, a heart still capable of love, and a future that was his to shape.  

For the first time in years, he felt something unexpected—peace.

Rediscovering life beyond responsibility 

Days turned into weeks, and the silence of the house no longer felt unfamiliar. Andy had spent the past few months adjusting to life on his own—finding small joys in books, conversations, and caring for his three cats. Yet, something still lingered beneath the surface. A deeper question, a subtle unease.  

"Now that I have time for myself, what do I do with it?"  

 Recognizing the Emotional Void  

It wasn’t just about missing his children or the sense of purpose parenting had given him. It was the realization that for years, he had structured his identity around responsibility. Without it, he felt lost. He had the freedom to do anything, yet he struggled to decide what that should be.  

- Was it too late to start something new?  

- Did he still have the energy to pursue unfulfilled dreams?  

- Was there still a place for him in the world beyond his past roles?  

 Understanding the Challenge of Transition  

1. Fear of Starting Over (30%) – The idea of beginning something new at this stage of life felt overwhelming, almost unnecessary.  

2. Struggles with Self-Worth (25%) – Without his role as a provider, he questioned his value in society.  

3. Uncertainty About the Future (25%) – Without clear goals, the future felt open-ended in a way that was unsettling rather than exciting.  

4. Loneliness vs. Solitude (20%) – He had always been independent, but now he wondered if he had mistaken isolation for peace.    

 Five Ways to Move Forward with Purpose  

1. Embracing Small Beginnings – Instead of searching for a grand purpose, he focused on what intrigued him. A book, a conversation, a new routine—each small step mattered.  

2. Defining Meaning on His Own Terms – He no longer needed external validation. He started writing again—not for recognition, but because it made him feel alive.  

3. Exploring New Connections – He joined discussions, engaged with like-minded individuals, and slowly rebuilt a sense of belonging beyond his immediate family.  

4. Allowing Himself to Enjoy Life Without Guilt – He had spent years prioritizing others. Now, he reminded himself that it was okay to focus on his own happiness.  

5. Accepting That Purpose Evolves – Just because one chapter of life had ended didn’t mean the story was over. He could redefine his role in ways he never considered before.  

 A New Perspective on the Future  

Andy glanced out the window, watching the evening settle in. The feeling of emptiness had not completely disappeared, but it had transformed. It was no longer a void—it was space. Space to grow, space to explore, space to simply be.  

For the first time, he didn’t feel like he had lost something. He felt like he had gained something else: the freedom to rediscover himself.

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Why does it feel like I'm always broke?

Andy sighed as he looked at his bank balance. "Why does it feel like I'm always broke?" No matter how much he tried to save, money seemed to slip through his fingers. Something deeper was at play. He needed to understand why.  

Four Possible Reasons:  

1. Childhood Trauma with Money (40%) – At eight years old, someone had stolen his piggy bank. That moment of betrayal planted a deep fear—saving felt pointless because money could disappear anytime. This subconscious belief made it hard to trust the idea of keeping money aside.  

2. Emotional Spending (25%) – Whenever stress, frustration, or sadness crept in, spending became a way to feel in control, even if just for a moment. Money wasn’t just a tool; it was an emotional comfort.  

3. Fear of Scarcity (20%) – Growing up with financial insecurity created a hidden urgency to spend before losing it again. Saving felt like a risk rather than a security.  

4. No Clear Plan (15%) – Without a structured approach to saving, money easily got spent on unnecessary things. It wasn’t just about income—it was about having a system.  

 Five Remedies to Overcome This:  

1. Reframe the Past – That stolen piggy bank was a painful memory, but it no longer defined his relationship with money. Saving wasn’t about losing—it was about gaining control.  

2. Start Small, Rebuild Trust – Instead of forcing big savings goals, he could start with something small, building confidence in his ability to keep money safe.  

3. Identify Emotional Spending Triggers – Every time he felt the urge to spend impulsively, he would pause and ask, “What am I really feeling?” Recognizing the pattern helped break the cycle.  

4. Shift from Fear to Strategy – Instead of fearing money would disappear, he created a plan: automatic transfers, emergency funds, and a mindset that saving was a long-term gain.  

5. Celebrate Small Wins – Even setting aside RM10 or $10 consistently was proof that he was in control. Over time, those small wins would turn into real financial security.  

He exhaled, looking at his new savings plan. The feeling of being broke wasn’t just about money—it was about his past, his fears, and his mindset. But now, he had found his way out.  

Feeling abandoned and unwanted 

Andy sat alone in his room, the quiet pressing in like an old, familiar presence. He had grown up with silence, a silence that was not peaceful but heavy, filled with questions that had no answers. He often wondered if there was something fundamentally wrong with him—why else would the people who should have loved him the most leave him behind?

 Recognizing the Root of the Pain

The feeling of abandonment was not new. It had followed him from childhood, lingering in the background of every relationship, every achievement, and every failure. His mother had separated him from his father and his father’s family, leaving him at his maternal grandparents' house. It was not a home—it was a place where he existed, not where he belonged. The monotonous days passed with no warmth, no conversation, just the expectation that he should endure. He did not feel seen. He did not feel wanted.

As the years passed, he carried this wound into adulthood, masking it with achievements, responsibilities, and the hope that if he just did more, if he just became better, he would finally be accepted. But the void remained.

 Understanding How It Affects the Present

Even now, as an adult, the echoes of those early days whispered in his mind. He found himself withdrawing from relationships, fearing rejection before it could even happen. He sometimes sabotaged opportunities, believing deep down that he was not worthy of them. The past had woven itself into his identity, shaping the way he saw himself and the world.

It wasn’t just the absence of love; it was the belief that he did not deserve it.

 Four Possible Reasons Why the Feeling Persists

1. Early Emotional Conditioning (40%) –When a child is repeatedly made to feel unwanted, their brain internalizes that as a core belief, making it difficult to shake even in adulthood.

2. Fear of Rejection (25%) – Having experienced abandonment before, he subconsciously expected it from others, often withdrawing before it could happen again.

3. Seeking Validation in the Wrong Places (20%) – He had spent years trying to prove his worth through achievements, thinking success would fill the void, but external validation could never replace inner healing.

4. Self-Sabotage (15%) – The mind seeks familiarity, even if it is painful. He unknowingly recreated his childhood experience by keeping people at a distance or doubting their sincerity. 

 Five Remedies to Heal and Move Forward

1. Acknowledge the Wound Without Judgment – Instead of suppressing the pain, he allowed himself to recognize and sit with it. It was not weakness; it was a part of his story.

2. Reframe the Narrative – He was not abandoned because he was unworthy. He was abandoned because of the choices of others—choices that had nothing to do with his worth.

3. Build New, Healthy Relationships – He started opening up to people who genuinely cared for him, testing the waters of trust, even if it was uncomfortable at first.

4. Practice Self-Compassion – He learned to speak to himself with the kindness he never received as a child, replacing harsh self-criticism with understanding.

5. Find Meaning in the Experience – Instead of seeing himself as a victim of his past, he used his story to inspire others, proving that one’s history does not have to define one’s future.

 Embracing the Truth

Andy took a deep breath, feeling the weight of years beginning to lift. The feeling of abandonment had been a shadow, but it did not have to control his life. He could step into the light. He could choose to believe that he was enough, that he was worthy, that he was not alone.

For the first time, he did not see himself as the child who was left behind. He saw himself as the man who had survived, who had grown, and who was ready to reclaim his sense of belonging—not from others, but from within himself.

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Contents

TURNING POINT: I

I AM NOT GOOD ENOUGH 3

I SHOULD GIVE MORE 6

WHY DOES IT FEEL LIKE I'M ALWAYS BROKE? 9

FEELING ABANDONED AND UNWANTED 12

MY PHD STUDY STRUGGLE 16

WHEN RESPONSIBILITY FADES, WHO AM I? 19

REDISCOVERING LIFE BEYOND RESPONSIBILITY 22

LETTING GO—RELEASING WHAT NO LONGER SERVES ME 25

OVERCOMING THE FEAR OF BEING ALONE 28

WHERE AND WHAT YOU WANT AT THIS JUNCTURE 31

UNDERSTANDING THE WEIGHT 37

THE BUBBLE OF EXISTENCE 41

ABOUT THE AUTHOR 47

I am not good enough

Andy sat in front of his laptop, staring at the blank screen. His mind echoed with the same thought that had followed him for years: “I’m not good enough.” It didn’t matter how much he had achieved or how many times people praised his work—somewhere deep inside, a voice kept whispering, “You could have done better. You should have done more.”  

It wasn’t just about one moment. It was a feeling that had shaped his life. Every setback, every unfinished goal, every comparison with someone more successful fueled that belief. Why did it feel like everyone else had figured things out, while he was still stuck in this endless cycle of doubt?  

But tonight, he had a realization. If this thought kept returning, then maybe it wasn’t the truth—maybe it was just a story his mind had told him for years. And if it was a story, then it could be rewritten.  

 Four Possible Reasons Why This Thought Exists:  

1. Past Failures Weigh Heavily (35%) – A memory of unfinished projects or missed opportunities lingers. The mind holds onto them, making it seem like proof of not being good enough.  

2. Comparison with Others (30%) – Seeing people who are more successful, happier, or seemingly ahead in life makes personal achievements feel small. Social media only makes it worse.  

3. Unrealistic Expectations (20%) – Setting high standards is good, but when perfection becomes the goal, nothing ever feels like enough.  

4. Negative Inner Dialogue (15%) – The habit of self-criticism has been repeated so often that it feels like reality. But just because the mind says it, doesn’t mean it’s true.  

 Five Remedies to Break Free from This Thought:  

1. Reframe Failure as Growth – Instead of seeing mistakes as proof of being ‘not good enough,’ he began to see them as lessons that shaped him.  

2. Focus on Personal Progress – His journey was his own. Instead of comparing himself to others, he started measuring himself against who he was yesterday.  

3. Redefine Success – Maybe success wasn’t about reaching perfection, but about consistent effort, learning, and growth.  

4. Challenge the Negative Voice – Every time his mind whispered, “You’re not good enough,” he would ask, “Where’s the real proof?” Most of the time, there wasn’t any.  

5. Practice Self-Compassion – He started treating himself the way he would treat a friend—with patience, encouragement, and kindness.  

As he closed his laptop, he realized something. The feeling of ‘not being good enough’ would come and go—but now, he had a way out. And that was enough.   

I should give more 

Andy sat by the window, staring at the city lights flickering in the distance. The quiet hum of the night felt both peaceful and heavy. A thought gnawed at him—one that had returned time and again. “I should be doing more. Giving more. Contributing more.” But tonight, unlike before, he wasn’t going to push it aside. Tonight, he was going to find his way out.  

 Four Possible Reasons Why This Thought Exists:  

1. Money as a Measure of Worth (35%) – Society often ties a person’s value to their financial contributions. The belief that “If I don’t give money, I’m not doing enough” can feel overwhelming.  

2. Comparison with Others (30%) – Seeing others donate, provide, or support financially can create a silent pressure— “If they can do it, why can’t I?” The focus shifts from personal ability to external expectations.  

3. Internalized Guilt (20%) – The feeling of wanting to contribute but not being able to can turn into guilt, making it seem like personal shortcomings are the cause.  

4. Overlooking Non-Financial Contributions (15%) – Wisdom, time, and emotional support are just as valuable, but when money becomes the main focus, these contributions feel invisible.  

 Five Remedies to Break Free from This Thought:  

1. Reassess Priorities – Andy asked himself, “What truly matters to me?” Money was one form of contribution, but not the only one. He had knowledge, experience, and guidance—things money couldn’t buy.  

2. Acknowledge Achievements – Instead of listing regrets, he made a list of what he had gained: lessons learned, struggles overcome, and the people he had helped in ways beyond finances.  

3. Redefine Contribution – His strengths lay in writing, teaching, and sharing insights. Instead of focusing on what he lacked, he realized he could give what he already had.  

4. Embrace Growth Instead of Crisis – This wasn’t a crisis. It was a shift in understanding. He wasn’t losing time—he was gaining clarity on what truly mattered.  

5. Avoid Self-Comparison – He stopped measuring his worth by what others were doing. His path was his own. His way of contributing was uniquely his.  

He took a deep breath. The feeling hadn’t disappeared completely, but now it felt different. It wasn’t a burden—it was a guide. He smiled. This was his way out. And maybe, just maybe, it was the beginning of something even greater.    

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This book is a journey through struggles, self-discovery, and healing. It explores themes of abandonment, self-worth, financial challenges, emotional resilience, and personal transformation. Through personal experiences and deep reflection, it offers insights into overcoming setbacks, embracing change, and finding peace within. Life is a series of choices—each shaping our path. With awareness and perseverance, we can break free from past burdens and move toward a future of clarity and purpose.

ASIN ‏ : ‎ B0F229SB4Z

Publisher ‏ : ‎ Independently published (March 19, 2025)

Language ‏ : ‎ English

Paperback ‏ : ‎ 47 pages

ISBN-13 ‏ : ‎ 979-8314738054

Reading age ‏ : ‎ Baby - 18 years

Item Weight ‏ : ‎ 4.3 ounces

Dimensions ‏ : ‎ 6 x 0.11 x 9 inches

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Amalan Seperguruan

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Amaran: 

Amalan Doa Tuan Guru 

Shaikh Dr Jahid Sidek Al-Khalidi

‎‎‎بسْمِ اللّهُ الرَّحْمَرُ الرَّحِيمِ

‎اِلَهِي اَنْتَ مَقصُودِي وَرِضَاكَ مَطْلُوْبِى لَا مَقصُودَ إِلَّا الله

أَعُوذُ بِاللهِ مِنَ الشَّيْطَانِ الرَجِيمِ

بِسْمِ اللهِ الرَّحْمَنِ الرَّحِيمِ

الْحَمْدُ لله رَبِّ العَالَمِينَ، حَمْدًا يُوَافِي نِعَمَهُ وَيُكَافِىُ مَزِيدَهُ، يَا رَبَّنَا لَكَ الْحَمْدُ كَمَا يَنْبَغِي لِجَلَالِ لِوَجْهِكَ الْكَرِيمِ وَعَظِيمِ سُلْطَانِكَ، اللَّهُمَّ صَلٍّ عَلَىٰ سَيِّدِنَا مُحَمَّدٍ وَعَلَىٰ آلِهِ وَصَحْبِهِ وَبَارِكٌ وَسَلِّمْ

تَسْلِيمًا كَثِيرًا.

اللَّهُمَّ إِنَّا نَسْأَلُكَ أَن تَرْزُقَنَا رِزْقًا حَلَالًا طَيِّبًا وَاسِعًا مِنْ غَيْرِ تَعَبِ وَلَا مَشَقَّةٍ وَصَبٍّ وَلَا نَصَبٍ، إِنَّكَ عَلَىٰ كُلِّ شَيْءٍ قَدِيرٍ،

‏Ya Allah, kami memohon kepada-Mu agar dikurniakan kami rezeki yang halal dan baik serta diluaskannya tanpa penat lelah, mencurah-curah bukan mengemis, sesungguhnya Engkaulah Yang Maha berkuasa atas setiap sesuatu

اللَّهُمَّ إِنَّا نَسْأَلُكَ الْتَوْبَةَ وَالْإِنَابَةَ وَالْاسْتِقَامَةَ عَلَىٰ الشَّرِيعَةِ الْغَرَّاءِ وَالطَّرِيقَةِ الْبَيْضَاءِ، اللَّهُمَّ اجْعَلُنَا مُسْتَقِيمًا وَلَا تَجْعَلْنَا سَقِيمًا عَلَىٰ الْحَقِّ

‏Ya Allah, Kami memohon kepada-Mu taubat dan inabah kami, tetapkanlah kami atas syariat-Mu yang mulia dan tariqah-Mu yang suci. Ya Allah,

‏tetapkanlah kami atas jalan-Mu yang lurus dan

‏janganlah pesongkan kami dari jalan-Mu yang benar

اللَّهُمَ مُنَّ عَلَيْنَا بِالْفُتُوحِ التَّامَّاتِ وَالْاسْتِقَامَةِ عَلَىٰ

الشَّرِيعَةِ الْغَرَّاءِ،

‏Ya Allah, kurniakanlah kami futuhat (buka hijab) yang sempurna dan tetapkanlah kami di atas syariat-Mu yang mulia

اللَّهُمَّ افْتَحُ عَلَيْنَا أَكْمَلَ الْفُتُوحِ، وَاشْرَحْ صُدُورَنَا

أَكْمَلَ الشُّرُوحِ،

‏Ya Allah, bukalah hijab hati kami dengan sesempurnanya dan bukalah pintu hati kami menerima hidayat dengan sebaik-baiknya.

اللَّهُمَّ صَلِّ عَلَىٰ سَيِّدِنَا مُحَمَّدٍ نُورِ الْأَنْوَارِ، وَعَلَىْ آلِهِ الْأَطْهَارِ وَأَصْحَابِهِ الْأَخْيَارِ، وَسَلِّمْ تَسْلِيمًا كَثِيرًا، اللَّهُمَّ يَا اللهُ يَا رَحْمُنُ يَا رَحِيمُ، وَيا هَادِيَ الْمُضِلِّينَ وَيَا نَاصِرَ الْمُسْلِمِينَ وَيَا رَاحِمَ الضُّعَفَاءِ وَالْمَسَاكِينَ، اِجْعَلْنَا مِنْ أَوْلِيَاءِكَ الْمُتَّقِينَ،وَاحْشُرْنَا فِي زُمْرَةِ الْمُقَرَّبِينَ، وَارْزُقْنَا خَيْرَ الدَّارَينِ، وَاحْفَظُنَا مِن شَرِّ الْكَوْنَيْنِ، آمِين... آمِين . ..آمِين. .. بِجَاهِ سَيِّدِنَا مُحَمَّدٍ سَيِّدِ التَّقَلَيْنِ.

Ya Allah, limpahkan selawat ke atas Nabi Muhammad SAW cahaya yang berganda, juga ke atas keluarganya yang disucikan Allah dan

sahabatnya yang terpilih, dan juga salam yang tidak terhingga banyak ke atas Baginda SAW.•

Ya Allah... Ya Allah Ya Rahman Ya Rahim, Wahai Pemberi Petunjuk kepada orang yang tersesat, Wahai Pembantu orang muslim, Wahai Yang Maha Pemurah terhadap orang lemah dan miskin, jadikanlah kami dalam kalangan wali-Mu yang bertaqwa, kumpulkanlah kami dalam golongan orang muqarrabin, kurniakanlah kami sebaik-baik balasan di dunia dan di akhirat, dan peliharalah kami dari segala kejahatan di dunia juga akhirat, amin... amin... amin... dengan berkat kemuliaan Nabi Muhammad SAW penghulu segala jin dan manusia

اللَّهُمَّ أَحْبِنَا فِي عَافِيَةٍ، وَأَمِتْنَا فِي عَافِيَةٍ، وَأَدْخِلْنَا الجَنَّةَ فِي عَافِيَةٍ، وَأَطِلْ بَقَاءَ شَيْخِنَا مَعَ صِحَّةٍ وَعَافِيَةٍ، وَانْفَعْنَا بِهِ فِي الدُّنْيَا وَالآخِرَةِ، إِنَّكَ عَلَىٰ كُلِّ شَيْءٍ قَدِيرٌ،

Ya Allah, kurniakanlah kehidupan kami ini kesihatan, matikanlah kami dalam keimanan, masukkanlah kami ke dalam syurga dengan keredaan-Mu, panjangkanlah umur Tuan Guru kami dalam keadaan sihat walafiat serta kurniakanlah keberkatannya kepada kami di dunia mahupun di

akhirat, sesungguhnya Engkaulah, berkuasa atas

segala sesuatu

رَبَّنَا آتِنَا فِي الدُّنْيَا حَسَنَةً وَفِي الْآخِرَةِ حَسَنَةً وَقِنَا عَذَابَ النَّارِ .

رَبَّنَا آنِنَا مِن لَدُنَّكَ رَحْمَةً وَهَيِّءٌ لَنَا مِنْ أَمْرِنَا رَشَدًا.

وَصَلَّى اللهُ عَلَىٰ سَيِّدِنَا مُحَمَّدٍ وَعَلَىٰ آلِهِ وَصَحْبِهِ أَجْمَعِينَ. والْحَمْدُ لِلّهِ رَبّ العَالَمِينَ.

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Allah swt mengambil nyawa serentak dengan nyawa di cabut tiada sela waktu untuk Allah swt kerana Allah swt tiada terbatas dengan waktu dll al-quran