Turning point - Book review Chapter 7

The bubble of existence 
Imagine life as a bubble—one that is uniquely yours, yet constantly intersecting with others. It expands and contracts, sometimes translucent and light, sometimes thick and heavy. It moves according to forces both seen and unseen, shaped by the choices you make and the path that was set before you.  

But this bubble did not form on its own. It was placed here by the One who creates, the One who determines, the One who tests. You are not here by accident. You are not floating aimlessly. Your existence has purpose, and within this bubble, you are meant to uncover it.  

 The forces within and without  

Inside the bubble is your mind, your will, your soul—the force that drives you forward. It carries your thoughts, beliefs, habits, and emotions. This is the part of you that decides, that interprets, that reacts.  

Outside the bubble is the world—the circumstances, the challenges, the people you meet, the moments that shape you. These external forces push and pull, sometimes gently guiding, sometimes violently shifting your course.  

But the most remarkable thing is that the inside and outside are not separate. They blend perfectly, influencing one another in ways you cannot always see. The path ahead is predetermined, yet flexible. Every choice you make changes its shape, sending ripples that alter the course ahead.  

 Intersection and Destiny

At different moments, your bubble will intersect with others. Some intersections are brief—a stranger you pass by, a single conversation that lingers for years. Others are profound—relationships that change you, hardships that break and rebuild you, moments of clarity that redefine everything.  

At each intersection, there is a choice. Choose one path, and your route unfolds in a certain way. Choose another, and a different path emerges. The destination remains fixed, but how you get there is written in response to what you decide today.  

Nothing is random. The tests, the struggles, the victories—they all form part of the greater design. You were placed here to experience them, to grow through them, to reach understanding through them.  

 The power of habit  

What prepares you for these intersections? Habit.  

The mind clings to what is familiar. If you shape yourself with discipline, patience, and practice, then when the moment of decision comes, you are ready. If you have walked the same road of effort a thousand times, then when the opportunity appears, you do not hesitate.  

This is why mastery takes repetition. 1000 hours. That is what it takes to become great at anything—to condition yourself so thoroughly that when the moment comes, you do not falter.  

And so, your habits are the patterns that shape your bubble. They dictate not only how you react to life but also what paths you are prepared to take when they appear before you. Those who build strong habits of thought and action are always ready for the intersection, always prepared for the unseen turn.  

 The unseen hand  

Yet, behind all of this—the choices, the habits, the intersections—there is always the One who set the test in motion. You were placed here for a reason. You were given abilities, challenges, and circumstances that were never random. The bubble is not chaos; it is creation.  

And though it may feel fragile at times, though it may feel uncertain and shifting, the truth is: it was never out of control.  

Your role is not to fight against it but to move with it, to learn from it, to shape your will according to the One who placed you here.  

You are in the test. You are in the journey. But the moment you recognize this, you are already halfway to the answer.

Free Will: The power to Choose 

If everything is predetermined, where does free will fit in? If the path is already set, do our choices even matter?  

The answer lies in the nature of the test itself. The One who placed you here gave you the ability to choose—not to alter the destination, but to determine how you will travel toward it. You are given crossroads, decisions, and lessons. And each time you choose, the course shifts, adapting to the pattern you create.  

Free will is not about control over everything—it is about control over yourself. You decide how to respond to the events unfolding before you. You decide whether to move forward or stay stuck. You decide whether to embrace wisdom or repeat old mistakes.  

 The Cycle of Mistakes and Mercy  

But what happens when you choose wrong? When you take the wrong turn, say the wrong words, make the wrong decision?  

This is where divine mercy comes in. The One who created the test also created the way back. You were not meant to be perfect. You were meant to fall, to learn, to seek forgiveness, and to rise again.  

Mistakes are inevitable. But what you do after defines your journey. Do you let guilt consume you, or do you return, reflect, and move forward?  

The cycle of life is simple:  
1. You make choices.  
2. You face consequences.  
3. You learn from them.  
4. You seek forgiveness.  
5. Life resets, and the test continues.  

This cycle repeats, not as punishment, but as a chance to refine your soul. Each mistake is an opportunity to return, to improve, to grow.  

 The Ultimate Choice  

In the end, free will is the greatest responsibility given to you. It is not the power to control fate, but the power to shape your response to it. The One who placed you here does not expect flawlessness—He expects sincerity. He gave you free will so that you may choose to return, again and again, until your journey is complete.  

And in that choice—the choice to seek, to correct, to surrender, and to trust—you find true freedom.et, behind all of this—the choices, the habits, the intersections—there is always the One who set the test in motion. You were placed here for a reason. You were given abilities, challenges, and circumstances that were never random. The bubble is not chaos; it is creation.  



The End


ABOUT THE AUTHOR
Nora Abdul is a man shaped by life's unpredictable currents, a seeker who has walked the long road of self-discovery, loss, and acceptance. At 50, he has seen dreams crumble and new ones take shape, felt the weight of abandonment and the warmth of resilience, and learned that the world does not bend to his will—but that he can adapt, grow, and find meaning in all things.  

His journey is not one of perfection but of persistence. From childhood wounds that lingered like shadows to the struggles of forging his own path, he has faced moments of self-doubt, questioning his place in the world. Yet, each setback became a lesson, each hardship an opportunity to reshape his understanding of himself and his purpose.  

He does not claim to have all the answers—only the willingness to ask the right questions. Through writing, he shares his reflections, hoping to reach those who, like him, have felt lost, uncertain, or trapped in patterns they cannot break. He believes that life is not a straight path but an intricate web of choices, intersections, and lessons. The key is not in controlling every outcome but in learning to navigate with awareness, patience, and a deep trust that everything unfolds as it should.  

Nora Abdul is not here to tell you how to live, but to remind you that you are not alone in your struggles. He has walked the path, and if his words can offer even a sliver of guidance or comfort, then every challenge he has faced has been worth it.

Book Summary  

This book is a journey through struggles, self-discovery, and healing. It explores themes of abandonment, self-worth, financial challenges, emotional resilience, and personal transformation. Through personal experiences and deep reflection, it offers insights into overcoming setbacks, embracing change, and finding peace within. Life is a series of choices—each shaping our path. With awareness and perseverance, we can break free from past burdens and move toward a future of clarity and purpose.







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